Sexual Health: Signs Your Sex Life is Healthy
A healthy sexual relationship with your partner does not just comprise the act of intercourse. Many believe that having sex many times is a sign of healthy sex, but this may not be the case.
Sex should not have any societal pressure; don’t compare your sex life to friends that have too much time on their hands or the porn industry that paints the worst expectations of how sex should be. Take time to only focus on your and your partner’s sexual needs and explore each other to become the best happy, fulfilled person that you deserve to be.
1. Good Communication in Bed
When we think about great sex, it essentially comes down to one key element: communication. When you feel comfortable expressing to your partner your wants and needs, you’ll feel at ease and excited to try things out. You won’t feel awkward or shy asking for how you want things done under the covers and you’ll end up having way more fun than you expected – just by communicating how you want it in bed!
2. You Feel Confident with Your Body
Healthy sex in a relationship is when you don’t feel the need to have sex in the dark or with your clothes on. You feel a sense of peace and comfort knowing that your partner is seeing you for the rawness of your body and for who you are. Being comfortable with your body helps you to enjoy sex even more.
When you have a positive body image, a huge sense of freedom will come with that; you feel good about yourself and you’ll get more enjoyment out of your sexual encounters. You are beautiful, your partner is beautiful, and you’ll both have a great time!
3. Always Ready to Try Something New
A healthy sex drive means you are always ready to try something new, something exciting that will fully spice up your sex life. if you are open and trusting with your partner, there’s a good chance you don’t mind switching things up once in a while.
Whether you want to try different positions or locations, new toys, sexy outfits, or some role-playing, doing something new with your partner is always exciting. You’ll know you’re on the right track when you communicate and both are willing to try something new.
4. You’re Both Getting What You Want
When you communicate with your partner, and you feel confident with the trust you have in each other, there is no denying that you both will both a great time in bed. It’s important to establish your wants so you can get what you’re looking for, but it takes two to tango.
When you ensure that your partner is happy and fulfilled, you’ll reap those feel-good benefits, too. You will have a full and satisfying sex life when both parties understand each other’s needs and want and work together to fulfil that. You don’t want to end the night unsatisfied and unhappy, so go ahead and tell them if you need a tickle or a squeeze once in a while, make things more exciting!
5. Be Present and Don’t Stress
You often find that life can get in the way sometimes, whether it’s your boss breathing down your neck, the kids and their schoolwork, or the endless household chores that are waiting for you. You feel like there is no time for some good, quality sexy time with your partner and it’s starting to take a toll on your mental and physical health.
It is good to take some time and schedule sexy time with your partner, a romantic date night always leads to a good ending or even a quickie in the morning. This will lead you to be satisfied even outside the bedroom, knowing that you’re in for a treat at the end of the day will help you to de-stress.
6. Sex is Fun!
The most important equation to sex: FUN! Enjoy sex! Be silly, don’t be afraid to laugh when someone falls off the bed or makes a funny sound. Sex is an intimate moment that you and your partner should be enjoying, and the best memories from your time together are most often the silliest ones.
Remember to not take sex too seriously, be in the moment and let loose a little. There is no harm in being completely relaxed while enjoying some sensual pleasures at the same time
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